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Wednesday, February 21, 2007
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This is something random that came to my mind while surfing the web.. god will only know the reason i'm actually posting this... i think it's the songs i listen to and the rants of my friends that are attached sorta inspired me to write about what i want in a relationship... he has to be caring. he has to be understanding. he has to be supportive, both physically and emotionally. he has to be able to talk well. Refine in his mannerism. he has to be able to carry himself well. he has to be able to at least cook a decent meal. (instant noodles don't count!) he has to be able to look after and clean after himself. (because i can't do that well) in short - he has to be independent. then again, he can't be a momma's boy. (imagine he following every wish of his dearest mommy..) he can't be a "bai zan qi". (can you imagine him being fairer than you???) he can't be a lump of fat and sloppy. (at least be fit.. no need muscles.. just not flabby) he can't be shorter than me. (i'm already so short.. imagine he being shorter than me?) he can't be a smoker. (totally unacceptable!!! it's bad for the his health, the people around him and the environment) however, I'm a materialistic person, so physical appearance don't really bother me... but i don't think i'll be able to just go for money.. so, maybe he has to look at least decent and presentable. erm, age really don't matter to me, but i wouldn't mind if he was older.. sadly, matters of the heart never goes your way most of the time. it's a checklist that you can't get what you demand. it's not economics where there is a supply and demand and a market equilibrium. he may be fair.. but oh well.. doesn't matter that much la.. heehee... on the other hand... I mean thinking of it, no one is perfect, everyone is an individual and are unique in their own way.. so my Mr.Right might not be yours and your Mr.Right might not be mine. After all, another person's meat is another person's poison. Quoting from my EngLit teacher, Ms Caroline, there is no such thing as a guy with perfect social grace. A person that is refine, simple and elegant - a person that is non-existent. So this actually means the dream guy of a person is literally "dream" guy.. is there anything to look forward to? Then again, it's the flaws in person that makes them dependant on another person. after all, if you two were made for each other, you two complete each other. which means, a negative and a positive equates neutral. heehee... lame la... so, there is actually something to look forward to in order to complete your life.. This goes to show that God actually encourages you to dream.. there is nothing wrong in dreaming.. it lets you unwind, relax and let you look into the goodness in our meaningless life on Earth.. it makes our miserable life much more exciting and colourful.. Labels: random thoughts |
THE girl
 its me I dreamed a dream in time gone by. When hope was high and life worth living. I dreamed that love would never die. I dreamed that God would be forgiving. Then I was young and unafraid. And dreams were made and used and wasted. There was no ransom to be paid. No song unsung, no wine untasted. byes(:
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